I did not end up taking photos - the lugnuts were swollen - I spent more time getting tires off than actually doing the rear shocks. This is a pretty simple job. The dealer who just recently rotated the tires apparently broke one of the wheelstuds loose, so I couldn't remove one tire, I was still able to swap the shock without removing the tire, though it was a bit more difficult.
Steps:
Jack/support vehicle.
Put slight pressure under the coil area of the rear suspension with a jack while working on it.
Remove the two top shock bolts
Remove the two bottom shock bolts
Remove the electronic shock harness (I rolled under rear of vehicle to do this).
Pry the harness mount points out (plastic snaps that hold the wiring in place).
Remove shock
Remove shock mount
Remove the boot/dust cover from shock, put them on new shock
Put new shock mount on new shock, reinstall 15mm nut
Install is reverse of removal.
Here is 90k mile shock (both looked like this).
Car drives 100x better already.